Today I saw a pigeon trying to build a nest outside my house. The place is covered with sharp spikes meant to keep pigeons away.
Yet, every day, I notice long twigs scattered below. It keeps trying. Again and again.
It doesn’t seem to understand that building a nest there is almost impossible. But it does not give up. It looks around, searches for space, and continues its effort.
And I know — somewhere nearby, it will finally succeed.
Relationships are much like this. Keep trying, but without hurting yourself. Sometimes success lies not in forcing one place, but in patiently finding the right one.
Talk about this in a session